A DISCUSS SERIES ON FAMILY TIES

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It's truly amazing how members of a family quickly bound while some others grow apart . it's all a function of precepts and how parents have made it a necessity for members of their immediate family to stay closely knitted. But it's also frustrating for some families who seem to put in their best to get their family close but with little or no result. A question comes to mind, is there a principle or a format to follow?

Well, this and more we will be treating on this series of family ties. Firstly, we will treat on a very vital aspect as it relates to the bound between father and daughter /mother and son. We will all agree that in most families, daughters seem to be closer to their fathers than son and mothers to their sons. Why is that? Is there a natural magnetic force between those family members or is there a conscious effort to bound? Will the impact made be more effective if the bound between father and daughter/mother and son is strengthened?

From my family, it wasn't so from the beginning until we grew up to be adults that was when the bound between father and daughters began. But for my mother and our only brother, it had always been that closeness and bound between them. I also know some families where father and daughter relationship is a cat and rat episode. Meanwhile, there exists closeness between the mother and the children irrespective of the gender.

 This series is an interactive and responsive one as it requires you our esteemed readers to make your comments/give your divers opinion as it regards the issue in view. It is geared towards bridging the gap in relationship between members of a nuclear family and closely examining the issues that exists as it regard family ties.

As much as possible, we would love you our valued readers to comment and share your experiences if need be. we intend to effectively tackle the challenges faced by children and teens generally.

WHY DO YOU THINK CHILDREN GO WAYWARD??

Comments

  1. Aisedion3 September 2017 at 08:20

    I wouldn't say there is no misetry behind it or say there is, but I think is an opinion that obliged to nature. Because the opposite tend to attract it's opposite. So for a family to have variations in preference is not a mystic entity but a realistic fact. Most mothers tend to be close to their son why the fathers most likely joy with their daughters. But what I've discovered is that in some family this only occur when the children are still very tender, why for some its lingers on. My family though with many divergence, uniformity superceed the other.
    But I feel it happen so that the oposite will be able to learn some personality because a boy will become a man so before that happen there are some trait that the father can't give but the mother can so likewise the lady. So this happen to help the children appreciate the opposite I quess.

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  2. dxperts tracts4 September 2017 at 09:43

    Wow!nice analysis but can't find there be a balance

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