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We often confuse the waiting period of our lives to be the time when we just sit and lament on what we should have done or what we should have been doing. As I often tell my friends who love to have a pity parties, people don't always love to attend your pity party so get up, braise your self up and do something about that unpleasant situation you are in. Today, I'm going to share with you some useful tips on what you can do while waiting on different levels of life. Waiting could mean different things to different people and that's because we are all not on the same page in life. For an Entrepreneur, waiting could be that period you do intense research on a business, get a concrete survey to ascertain how it can best be run. It could also be the period you scout for fundings or get a skill that will enhance that new business idea. It not just enough to have a business idea, there are skill relevant to such. Invest in skill and you get back excellence and success in th...

I once read an article that talked about loyalty. So many know what it is but only a few practice it. The hierarchy in marriage is                   God                      ||                 Husband                       ||                     Wife                       ||                  Parents                      ||                  Spiritual Leaders                       ||                   Office boss       ...

Why teens fall prey to sexual acts This topic is termed very sensitive because it has do to with sex education. A lot of people especially our parents tend to shy away from it. Nevertheless, its importance in our day and can't be over emphasised as we see that most teens fall into error in this regard. Sex is sacred and its exclusively for the married. When anyone engage in it outside the context of marriage is an abominable act. Illicit sex is so prominent in this generation so much so that feelings and appearances lead most people into the act. Yes!its called an act simple because it involves two people performing it. Now,our teens fall prey most times as a result of many factors. It could be as a result of gullibility, lack of self control, inadequate sex education, peer pressure, competition or complex issues etc Whenever this topic poops up, its always easy for most people to point accusing fingers on teens forgetting that they were born into homes. Unlike most people...

Several years ago, my family went through a hard time. Every family go through it in one way or the other. Ours was so bad because as children we had never really lacked anything or suffer for lack of food and maximum comfort in the home. My parents made sure our needs were well cover. It was so hard that we couldn't eat nice meals whenever we wanted and this we had to cope with. At the time, we had just moved to our own home and my parents had cleared their accounts to make our home a little bit habitable for us. The environment was different, the neighborhood was too hostile(including reptiles). Our house was surrounded by bushes and residential buildings were far away from us. We had to cope somehow. We fell sick one after the other but somehow, we got out of it. On evening, there was no food in the house so Mom went out into the bush to get vegetables she could make into soup but there was not fish or meat to cook it with as usual. While she went out, I and my immediate yo...

In the wider world,gender equality is often narrowed down to the equal placement of a male and a female. Wikipedia puts it this way''Gender equality, also known as sexual equality, is the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender, including economic participation and decision-making; and the state of valuing different behaviors, aspirations and needs equally, regardless of gender".This point of view has been widely spread and its becoming a trend in our world today. In our society today, there is so much clamour for gender equality and the old norm of men solely taking over or leading in every area/sphere of human endeavor is gradually fizzling out. Nowadays, women take lead roles in different sphere and are doing exceptionally well in that regard. This is a laudable achievement for women whose impact overtime has been able to prove beyond every reasonable doubt the saying that"what a man can do,a woman can do b...

And the day finally came true. oh! that day she dreamt so much about. She laid on her bed all through the night but nervousness, excitement and overwhelming joy totally took sleep far from her eyes. Staring continuously at her white ball gown and sparkling white shoes carefully hung in the wardrobe just kept her wondering how amazing it would be walking down the aisle to her prince charming. He was all she wanted in a man, so gentle, kind, godly, romantic, thoughtful and more. Curly had told everyone who cared to hear that she'll be getting married and that all was set for the day.  Yes I do! yes I do! they both echoed with wide smiles and joy beaming on their faces. Everything was set just as they had desired it to be. The party, the dance and the celebration ended and they were left alone to face life,the married life!  The first night was simply amazing. Oh! she was finally bound to the love of her life and she felt so lucky to have such a handsome Mr. perfect by...

There are alot of issues bothering on family and most issues can be properly dealt with if pre knowledge about it is gained. Family is one area God is truly interested in because its the birth Place for a good society. If the family is sick then the world will certainly be sick. An aspect of family affairs that we will treat is on family planning and finance. I'm so sure that the married women in the house know alot about this issue. I call it an issue because, it possess the potency to rip families apart if not well handled even from courtship level. Yes, it starts from courtship. During this period, you and your spouse must extensively talk about how many children you can afford to take care of. Some just like children no matter the number forgetting that its not just about having them but giving them adequate care and training. MAL 2:15 charges us to bring up godly seeds and it's irrespective of number. There are questions to ask before making a family: 1)Can we affo...