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Waywardness!! What do you think?

Lets talk about waywardness. A lot of people define it as being out of control or an after effect of not being properly brought up. But lets view it this way. We would establish waywardness is going astray from the normal acceptable norm. It could also be seen as an awkward way of behavior, yes!! Its actually a behavior. Other definitions would be accepted with facts. Now, it would be very unfair to tag a person wayward leaving out the causes or persons or factors that could be responsible for such behavior. In recent times, its being observed that the degree or rate of   moral degradation is rather alarming and no one seem to claim responsibility for it. Its really sad!! Knowing that the first step to correction is taking responsibility, admitting and then correction. Its so easy for the old folks to put a tag of 'waywardness' on any child or person with unacceptable behavior. But my question is what's the genesis or cause of waywardness?? H

A DISCUSS SERIES ON FAMILY TIES (Cont...)

Attachment they say is a result of closeness and deliberate physical attraction. Some people get attached to things or people based on fondness or extreme likeness for such consequently leading to emotional attachments. As it relates to family, attachment comes when attention is given to quality time and attention to details about another. It is also by sex ie male to female/female to male which I call the natural factor. If a survey or censor should be taken on the level of attachment between colleagues, students, children, business partners and the likes, we would discover that the highest level of attachment is that which exists between the opposite sexes. No wonder opposite sex find it very easy to get attached to each other while a majority repel same sex relationship. In a family, it is easier for a father and a daughter to bond effortlessly than father and son. Same goes for the mother. From my point of view its rather a good thing cause correction or re